When you get a chance to grab some life, act now man. It won't be be labeled. There will be no flashing lights. You have to use the laws of fairness. You can NOT cheat or you will be severely penalized by the stern witness that lives inside you.
Remember this is an act of freedom in uncharted territory. You will be alone, uncertain, and people will laugh because they have not the balls to act themselves. Trust thy self. At first, it may be only a gut feeling... So do it then with all your heart. You will in time, after falling on your face enough, become good at it.